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If you travel enough, it is going to happen. You can map out the perfect itinerary, sprint through the terminal, and still watch your plane push back without you. It literally just happened to me 2 nights ago, and I get it, it's frustrating.

BUT, when you miss a connection, there is no point in letting it ruin your entire day. If there is a later flight, great, you're likely on it. If not, you will be spending the night wherever your connection happened to be. It's just the way it is, and if you fly all the time, you probably already know the drill. The best thing you can do is accept it and try to make the best of it!

Here are the 5 things I always do to make a missed connection as painless as possible:

1. Accept It and Take Action

You cannot magically make a flight happen or force the gate agent to hold a plane that has already closed its doors.

Get over the initial frustration and focus entirely on what you can control: your reaction and your next steps.

The faster you pivot from being angry to taking action, the faster you get a hotel room.

2. Multi-Task Your Customer Service

Do not just join the massive line at the airport customer service counter and wait. The moment you know you are missing the flight, get on your phone.

Call the airline's customer service number immediately. If the phone queue is super long, open the airline's app and use the live chat feature—it is often much quicker.

While you are doing this, physically walk to the airport counter as well. Whichever option answers you first is the one you go with.

3. Know The U.S. DOT Rules (Airline Fault vs. Weather)

You need to know your rights. Under the latest U.S. Department of Transportation guidelines and airline customer service commitments:

• If it was the airline's fault (Controllable): Things like maintenance issues or crew shortages mean the airline is fully responsible. All major U.S. carriers have legally committed to providing you with a complimentary hotel accommodation for an overnight delay, plus meal vouchers if you are delayed more than three hours.
• If it was out of their control (Uncontrollable): If you missed the connection due to thunderstorms, blizzards, or Air Traffic Control (ATC) issues, the airline is legally not required to pay for your hotel or food. However, it never hurts to ask politely—sometimes a gate agent will help you out with a “distressed passenger” discounted hotel rate anyway. I've had it work out before, and I've had to foot the bill as well.

4. Ditch the Free Hotel Shuttle

Once you have a hotel secured for the night, it is time to get there. I never wait for the free hotel airport shuttle, and there is a massive reason why.

If you are one of dozens of people who just missed a connection due to a canceled flight, you are likely all heading to the same partner hotel. If you wait and cram onto that shuttle, you are going to be standing in a massive, miserable line at the hotel front desk waiting to check in.

When it is late, you have been traveling all day, and you have to wake up at 4:00 AM for the rebooked flight, time is everything. Call an Uber or grab a taxi, beat the shuttle crowd to the lobby, and get to sleep.

5. Make the Best of an Unexpected Night

I know it sucks to miss your flight, but you can choose to make the best of it. Order a great local pizza to the room (I Uber Eats something on the Uber ride to the hotel so I don't have to wait long), put on a good movie, or actually go enjoy an unexpected night in a city you weren't planning on visiting.

We had a flight canceled in Chicago once, and instead of sitting in the airport fuming, we went into the city and ended up having an amazing day.

Travel rarely goes exactly as planned; the best travelers know how to roll with the punches.

The Bottom Line: Control The Controllables

The reality of modern travel is that the moment you step foot inside an airport, you surrender a massive amount of control. Planes have mechanical issues, massive storm systems roll in, and sometimes you are just going to have to watch your gate close from 50 feet away while you sprint down the concourse.

You can’t control the delays, but you have absolute control over how you handle the fallout. Pack a little extra patience, always keep a toothbrush and a fresh pair of underwear in your carry-on, and remember that a trip isn't ruined just because the itinerary changed. It is just an unexpected detour.

Tyler Fox

Tyler is our Managing Editor and Writer. After spending years reading, writing, and obsessing over travel (while taking trips as often as possible of course!), he aims to give readers the best and most balanced experience possible when exploring the site.